Walaiwan's Kitchen, Montpelier, Vermont

Wow, wow, wow! This place has delicious food and at a spectacular price. It lacks indoor space, which in Vermont is a bit of an issue much of the year, but the set up is great. They have a window onto the street, a couple of tables on the sidewalk and a couple inside. They no longer serve anything but main dishes, and while the four tables filled up while we were there eating and occupying one of them, they are primarily a grab and go place.

Here is the set up--they have three things on the menu, and they change each week--which is great if you want to be a frequent flyer rather than someone who has the same dish each time--I would definitely have had both dishes we ordered on a return trip, but would also welcome three other choices, the food was that good). It is not vegetarian friendly--there was a pork, a chicken, and a beef dish when we were there, and all of them had a good level of spice, and very complicated curry flavors with layers of ginger, onion, lemongrass, and basil. It was so yummy and well worth just getting off the highway and making a pit stop to pick up food if you are not actually headed for Montpelier but rather passing through. They do have a call ahead option for ordering.

Heartwood by Amity Gaige

The main event in this book is that Valerie Gillis is a married nurse who is hiking the Appalachian Trail from south to north in its entirety. There is a smattering of the culture of the trail, and how relationships develop on a journey like that. She goes missing in Maine and the search for her begins. The interesting part of this is that she keeps a journal while she is being searched for, which is addressed to her mother, which is an interesting way to tell her story about how she is feeling and what she is thinking. The other major player is the officer who is in charge of the search for her--she has a complex relationship with her family, and we get a window into how her family of origin might have contributed to her choosing law enforcement and where she gets satisfaction in her life. Then there is Lena, who is in her 70's and struggling to maintain her independence. She was a scientist in her working life, and she misses the intellectual stimulation. She becomes an on line sleuth who provides a critical clue about where to look for Valerie. I enjoyed this story, which is told in a somewhat disjointed way but weaves together in the end.

Audrey Esarey of Cotton and Bourbon

Wow, wow, wow. I have really loved seeing Audrey's quilts in person at both the 2024 and 2025 QuiltCon meetings--I was impressed with them the first year I went, and the second year she was winning awards, which was both well deserved and not surprising. Her sense of graphics that she then translates to quilts is both stunning and astounding to me.

So despite the fact her talk to my guild fell on my anniversary AND that I had an expensive fixed price dinner to go to, I did not miss her talk. I brought a sack full of containers to the dinner, and enjoyed 4 of the 7 courses from the comfort of my parlor and sat for an hour listening to her talk about her design process. She walked us through the evolution of her designs for a couple of her quilt series, step by step in some cases, and it was both instructive and an interesting peak into how she thinks about next steps--once you fall in love with something, how do you change it slightly and yet significantly into something that you can love just as much? She is a wonder, and if you ever get a chance to see her work or hear her talk, I would grab it. Well worth it.

Apple In China by Patrick McGee

Despite being an early adapter of Apple products, and having read a bit about Steve Jobs and the company itself, I know very little about the business side of the company, and this book is an easy introduction in to what Tim Cook has done for Apple, and what the implications of that are. The author contends that as the world’s first $3 trillion publicly traded company, Apple is an unusual kind of political actor — Apple may have the gross domestic product of a small nation, but it doesn’t have an army; it must play by others’ rules. the book charts Apple’s development into a design and manufacturing powerhouse that is dependent on the profitable relationships and supply chain networks it’s helped create in China, the company’s second-largest consumer market. Apple has sunk hundreds of billions of dollars into Chinese markets. The result was an extraordinary transformation of Apple’s production processes that leveraged China’s cheap labor, poor rule of law and extraordinary economies of scale. This book explores what happened, why it happened and what the implications are going forward.

The Dead Are Unlikely To Be Grateful

The first person who I have known most of my adult life died this past summer. It was a premature death, someone who had not taken good care of themselves and not always made the best decisions, but also someone who very much wanted to live, and who unexpectedly died. We had a celebration of life at our home for him, and it was really a wonderful day. He had family and friends who traveled long distances to be there, and it was a deeply satisfying and moving day. I was very happy to be able to be there--my own survival to this point was not a given, and I was also happy to be able to do a good job of it. The food was simple, but good. The right people were invited and showed up--there were people across his life span, many I had not seen in years, so the event nurtured the living, as all funerals should. Once again, I am grateful we have a good space to celebrate in, but mostly that I am able to be grateful for both what I have and where I have been in life. As I said about my dad's funeral--he would have been please about everything except that he didn't live to see it.

Sorrow and Bliss by Meg Mason

This is yet another Parnassus recommended novel where the moniker of "messy" was both used and is fitting. I mostly really like messy, especially if it involves families, and bonus points if it is both multi-generational and lengthy. This is neither of the later, but enjoyable none-the-less. The thing that is unnamed that niggles around the edges of this novel are that Martha, the main character, has a mental illness. She has had it her whole life. Her alcoholic mother has not just ignored it, she has tried to bury it, and now, in adulthood, Martha's husband Patrick has left her as a direct result of it. Martha has terrible rages, has problems with sounding normal at work or at parties, is unreliability, makes snarky remarks which make her difficult to get on with and yet she inspires great affection from those who make the effort. She’s smart and shows odd moments of empathy. These are quite a barrier for her, and lead to her husband, Patrick, leaving her--but at no point does someone recommend treatment. It is a real oddity, and distracting for me as a mental health professional. Martha’s family are individually either odd or difficult, but they are all interesting and have their redeeming points. Patrick has his own sorrows – his lack of family, his struggles with his problematic love for Martha. This is a good read, and it is not a garden variety book.

Five Keys

We were out to dinner at a nice restaurant with a good cocktail bar, and we opted to pass on a cocktail there and have one at home instead. The $60-75 saved could be invested in specialty ingredients, like the unusual Cynar found in this cocktail! Five Keys 1.5 oz bourbon .25 oz luxardo .25 oz Cynar .75 oz sweet vermouth Stir with ice, strain into coupes To quote my spouse, who makes all the cocktails in my house: "This is one of the most delicious cocktails I’ve made this year; perfectly balanced; a keeper!"

Everything Is Tuberculosis by John Green

This is a medical based memoir focused on the history of tuberculosis and the author's personal experiences with people who are infected with it. On the one hand this seems wildly different from his enormously popular YA books, which are fiction and then again, I think, they contain characters who struggle with substance use, mental health issues, cancer, and death, so maybe not that different at all. He is a talented story teller, and the short but accurate reflection on tuberculosis past and present, as well as the challenges that are faced in addressing the illness are well and accurately described, as are the health discrepancies across the globe. This is a guy who can make you cry for a good reason--I cried through much of the second half of The Fault In Our Stars, it so accurately captured my fears as a parent of a childhood cancer survivor. He gets it and he can write about it, and this book grabs you in a similar way. He makes a case for science, which is not currently popular nor funded, but hopefully that tide will turn and we will once again embrace fact based solutions to difficult problems. In the meantime, this book will help inform your thinking.

Art Quilt Workbook: Exercises & Techniques to Ignite Your Creativity by Jane Davila and Elin Waterston

This is a great How To book about how to move your creative side as an artist towards making fiber arts. I took a collage class with Lisa Thorpe at the Minnesota Quilters retreat and there is a section of this book that totally applies to this. There is information about copyright and how to avoid violating it in your work, which I have not seen much in books related to quilting. This is more about the art than the quilting. There is no instruction on how to piece or sew contained within it, it is all about making your art on fiber--so painting on fabric, dying fabric, printing on fabric, and how to put it all together--with examples from the both of the author's own works--which are very different from each other, so very helpful in the visualization of how it would translate depending on the artist. Recommended if this is a direction you want your quilting to take!

The CIA Book Club by Charlie English

I saw this on a "Best Books" list for 2025, and I had just finished reading a fictionalized account of the smuggling of Doctor Zhivago back into Russia earlier in the Cold War and thought this was related to that mission. And in some ways it is, but whereas that happened at the front end of the Cold War, this book is focused on things that happened closer to when the Berlin Wall came down rather than when it went up. This is a well researched and very readable book about the CIA operation codenamed QRHELPFUL. Solzhenitsyn was most often smuggled, but he was far from being the only author whose works the CIA snuck into Soviet block countries. George Orwell’s Nineteen Eighty-Four and Animal Farm were probably the most popular among the dissidents the books were intended for, but a wide range of other authors including Adam Mickiewicz, Albert Camus, Nadezhda Mandelstam and even Agatha Christie also featured on the QRHELPFUL book list. The inspiration behind the scheme was a charming-sounding CIA boss called George Minden, who believed that the freedom to read good literature was as important as any other form of freedom. During most of the 1980s the CIA was run by a rather tiresome, boisterous adventurer called Bill Casey, who was appointed by Ronald Reagan in 1981. It was under him that Minden was able to pump books, photocopiers and even printing presses into the Soviet empire. They helped to keep people there in touch with precisely the kind of western culture the high priests of Marxism-Leninism wanted to block out. This was especially true in Poland, which is English’s main focus. Poles never forgot that their country was essentially part of western Europe, and the flow of French, British and American literature in particular was an important part of keeping that awareness going, and that it helped fuel the effort to re-establish independence. This is an interesting read about behind the scenes efforts to educate people.

Bar Hill, Montpelier, Vermont

Bar Hill makes award winning gin, and they have the unique starting ingredient of honey as the source of fermented sugar. They started off in the Northeast Kingdom, a rural part of the state, even by Vermont standards, but with success they expanded their operation and are now located in a facility of thier own making on Gin Lane on the outskirts of town in Montpelier. There is a restaurant, craft cocktail bar, and most appealing to us, a tasting room. We very much enjoyed tasting the variety of gin and vodka products they make, and because we were flying and hoping not to check bags, they have 100cc bottles available to take home in a carry on bag. The facility is as lovely as what they make and I would recommend adding this as a stop if you are in central Vermont or driving through. It is easy to get to off I-89 and well worth it. Montpelier has a lot to offer besides Bar Hill, and is also recommended. The independent bookstore, Bear Pond Books, was featured in a recent New York Times article on independent book stores and the resident animals they have--in addition to books, there is a store cat as well.

Wellness by Nathan Hill

This is a winner that was recommended to me by a friend while we were on a wild adventure in Argentina. She is also the source of the recommended podcasts from Parnassus books each week, for which I will be forever grateful she turned me on to. What a jewel that is! Ok, I read a review of this which called it a tale of the tragicomic maladies of marriage, which is a bit funny and very true. However, I see it more of an exaggerated account of the baggage that each member of the couple brings into their relationship from their families of origin, and how they form a team and try to avoid those exact mistakes onto their offspring, thereby creating their own set of issues to be passed on through their children to their grandchildren, and so on. Jack and Elizabeth meet as students in 1990s Chicago. They live in neighboring buildings and, at night, watch one another through dark windows, imagining themselves into each other’s lives long before actual intimacy occurs. This courtship through glass can’t help but have the aura of a scientific experiment – and scientific experiments are Elizabeth’s area. She works at a lab that specializes in placebo studies, exploring the porous border between real and imagined remedies. The organization is known by the name “Wellness”--which is not what it is about, we come to find out. It is more about manipulation, which is at the heart of this. Jack and Elizabeth come from families with a malignant dose of it--her father and his mother--and it leaves them damaged, so much so that they feel lucky to find each other. They then have to figure out how to make the whole thing work, and it is a messy story about how they manage that.

A Nice Indian Boy (2025)

This is a nice boy meets boy love story. Naveen and Jay are perfect for each other. There are hiccups but it is a straight up romantic comedy other than the couple aren't straight. The movie opens with Naveen's sister's semi-arranged marriage--his parents, who are themselves in an arranged marriage are over hte moon--the groom is a doctor! All eyes are on Naveem--you are next is oft heard, and it is painful for him, because not only is he not dating, he is exceedingly awkward and he is gay, which his paretns know but are a bit prickly about. They don't quite get him. Then miracle of miracles he meets Jay. At temple no less. They are big fans of Ganesh. Yes, Jay is white, but he was raised by an Indian foster family who he adored, and he speaks Hindi. There are some ups and downs, as you would expect in a romantic comedy--one must have comedy, after all, and a lot of things are said out loud that are well worth hearing so if you have some gay averse family members this is a pretty G-rated way to normalize what is altogether normal for them. And there is some light weight Bollywood love at the end that is fun.

Run For The Hills by Kevin Wilson

I have only read one other book by this author but it shared characteristics with this one, making me think that it might be how this author rolls. It’s wacky and full of heart, but in between each laugh I felt the very sad back beat of who is family and why do they so often fail their children in the most basic of ways. It is also a story of family and the many shapes it can take, but it is also much more, asking why the ones who leave and the ones who lie are always the epicenter, always the focal point. The book opens with Mad, an organic farmer in her thirties, is resigned to her solitary lifestyle on her farm that her father left behind. One day her quiet and predictable life is interrupted by her newly discovered half brother, Rube, showing up at her farm. Rube is at once soft and jagged, desperate and pleading, reaching out a hand for Mad to reluctantly take. He shows up with stories of his father, same name as Mad’s dad but an entirely different man—a writer from Boston, whereas the only father Mad ever knew was a farmer in Tennessee. He convinces her to go on a road trip to find their other half siblings and their disappearing father, and what they learn along the way is a lesson for all of us. Really enjoyable and not nearly as light and fluffy as it appears.

Rhetoric On The Right: The Embracing of Opposite Day

An outspoken advocate for gun ownership was shot and killed at a speaking event on September 11th. Would he be okay with that? In 2023, following a mass shooting at the Christian Covenant School in Nashville, Tennessee, he stated, per Newsweek, “It’s worth to have a cost of, unfortunately, some gun deaths every single year so that we can have the Second Amendment.” The trade off for gun access and gun deaths is that people will die--and it can't always be other people, can it? In the US about 50,000 people die by guns every year, so "some" is a pretty big number. He was not advocating for the shooting of children, who are more likely to die from gun violence than any other cause, so it seems he accepted the risk, maybe better than those who advocate for more controls on guns. In the aftermath of the shooting death of a man who was known as a spokesman for widespread gun ownership in this country, there is a focus on the politics of advocating violence. The right wants to advocate violence against anyone who disagrees with them, and to vilify those who speak out against them. The current President uses a lot of violent rhetoric when talking about his opponents, and the very same week that Mr. Kirk was killed at a public event, he was threatening war on the city of Chicago. That is violent speech and imagery. Then I hear GOP politicians calling out the left--without attribution of source--for inciting violence. "Some on the American left are undoubtedly well-meaning people, but their ideology is pure evil,” Representative Bob Onder, Republican of Missouri, said on Thursday in a speech on the House floor. “They hate the good, the truth, and the beautiful, and embrace the evil, the false, and the ugly.” Calling people well-meaning but evil none-the-less because they disagree with you is what is bad, false, and ugly. Half of America doesn't agree with you, afterall, and that alone does not make them evil. It is that rhetoric, which incites strong feelings, which can lead to violence. So who is it inciting violence in acutality? Seems like the right--look in the mirror if you want to see the problem, Congressman Onder.

A Single Man by Christopher Isherwood

This is another of the Parnassus Book recommendations that I have followed (spoiler alert--I have become fairly addicted to watching these, and have folded a number of their recommendations in to my reading rotation. The book is dedicated to Gore Vidal and is set in 1962, just after the Cuban missile crisis, and describes a day (with some flashing about in time) in the life of George Falconer, a 58-year-old expat Englishman who is living in Santa Monica and teaching at a university in LA, just as Isherwood did. The narrative is edgy, subtle, and controlled, with chasms of buried rage. George has recently lost his partner, Jim, in a car crash, and is struggling with bereavement. He tries to make a connection to the world around him, while denying his predicament as a widower. We see him go through the motions of everyday life: teaching a class, fighting with his neighbors, working out at the gym, shopping at a supermarket, drinking with an older woman friend, flirting intellectually with a young student – before fading out on the final page. As a study of grief and a portrait of the aftermath of a gay marriage, A Single Man is unique, brilliant, and deeply moving, with not a word wasted, saying so much with so little. There is an autobiographical component to this, and the editor of the author's diaries notes that there is a lot of material lifted almost word for word from them. Published in 1964, it was a window into a world that few straight readers would have been familiar with at the time.

Last Christmas (2022)

In the genre of classic Christmas movies, this fails miserably--however it is still worth watching if you need a line up of slightly quirky romantic comedies with the holiday aura about them. I was lured in by Emma Thompson and Michele Yeoh being in it to think it might be elevated above that but it was not. It was appealing in the cookie cutter British light fare sort of way. Based on the song by Wham! the movie tells the story of George Michael-obsessed, former Yugoslavian 26-year-old Kate, a a screw up whose foibles are more annoying than catastrophic. She works in an an all-year-round Christmas store in Covent Garden dressed as an elf, even when she is off the clock sometimes. This minimum wage job is not her dream--she really wants to be a professional singer, without training and while she is sort of homeless and lives on whatever couch she can find. She avoids her concerned mother, exhausts her beleaguered boss, frustrates her ever-decreasing circle of friends and drifts about while struggling to make anything substantial last. We do find out why that might be in the gradual reveal. But then while dusting Christmas decorations, she spots a handsome stranger (Henry Golding) staring at a bird. After the pair start to fall for each other and go on a number of saunters around the city, Kate is feeling a bit hooked but he is giving off a differenct vibe.Why? An why does he keep disappearing on her? All will be revealed.

Audition by Katie Kitamura

I put this on my library hold list because it was longlisted for the Booker Prize, but I also would have been intrigued because the other book by her that I have read is Intimacies, which tells the story of an interpreter at the Hague who comes to feel that she is the mouth piece for a war criminal that she is interpreting for. in this one, an aging an actress is confronted by a young man who claims to be her son, and though this cannot possibly be the case or can it, we never quite can figure it out. She invites him to live with her and her husband in their apartment as their child, which is bit shocking. If it were my child I would help them with the rend some place, not put them under my roof. But then we wouldn't have the crucial irritant to work with in the story. What could go wrong? Just about everything. These narrators take the most dramatic events in stride and devote most of their attention to minute observation of the people around them, noting the smallest gestures and contemplating their possible meanings. They are not given to outbursts of emotion, and in conversation they tend to listen more than talk. This leaves room for the reader to internally reflect as well, and the result for me was intense and a little startling.

Puerto 511, Baltimore, Maryland

This is a restaurant that you would not find if you were not looking for it. There is almost no curbside appeal and less signage--but it is a special place rather than something deserving of it's hiding spot. We were introduced to it by my SIL who picked it for our son's birthday dinner. It turns out that Little Donna's the night before was a better fit for him, but the rest of us loved this.

It is a fixed price menu of Peruvian food. They do not have a liquor license, so it is BYOB and they will open your wine and give you glasses for a corkage fee per person, but even better, bring your own pisco and they will make you excellent pisco sours. The food is surf and turf--but if you on;y eat seafood, they will sub that in for you. My spouse rhapsodized on the merits of the veal heart dish, but I was just as happy to skip that in favor of a tuna dish. I would definitely recommend this and go back on a return trip to Baltmore.

So We Read On by Maureen Corrigan

I picked this up because it was a Friday "If You Haven't Read This It Is New To You" series recommendation from Parnassus Books (if you are unfamiliar with these short format videos about books that are worthy, not current but in print, and that you might have missed but shouldn't have, they are well worth watching--try not to get overwhelmed though because I am a pretty intense reader and I can not keep up with these and I have not read most of them). Ann Patchett encourages everyone to read The Great Gatsby again if you have not read it since high school, and then read this as a companion. The author teaches a class at the college level about Gatsby, and this is a great reflection on both Fitzgerald as well as his classic novel and I would definitely recommend this, especially if you are interested in how we look at our country and our history.

Persuation (2022)

Ok, there are so many interpretations of this book specifically and Jane Austen in general that it is hard to know which I like best--the Regency steeped ones or the modern versions. This one is kind of a mash up of the two. Set in the original times period, but with decidedly modern asides. This is a thoroughly charming portrayal of Anne Elliot.She drinks red wine straight from the bottle, is seen crying in the tub and lying around in bed, narrating her romantic woes with a familiar, self-effacing wit. She also repeatedly breaks the fourth wall with an amusingly dry aside or a well-timed eye roll. Anne jokes that she’s “thriving,” and clearly she is anything but, but she’s so winning in her state of loss that we can’t help but root for her. Her plight is that the love of her life, Frederick Wentworth, was penniless when they first met, about to set sail on a Navy ship, and Ann's up tight, society obsessed family convinced her that she should give him up--which she did and eight years later she regrets that choice every single day. Then, as luck would have it, they meet up again, and now he is a rich man, all while her own family's fortune is waning--but does she tell him how she feels? Does he tell her he carries a torch for her? No, of course not, so we all have to watch them miss each other time and time again. Not terribly satisfying, but Ann is great and so in the end, I recommend this.

Julie Chan Is Dead by Liann Zhang

I started this because it is a debut novel, and to get my Goodreads ribbon in this category, I chose this one. This book is a somewhat jaded look at what it is to be an influencer--I think it is well written and insightful--my rating is more related to my profound lack of interest in that dimension of the modern world rather than a reflection on the writing or story telling. The story follows Julie Chan, a supermarket cashier, as she assumes the influencer lifestyle of her deceased identical twin sister, Chloe Van Huusen. Though twins, the two were separated at a young age as their birth parents died in a car crash; Chloe was adopted by wealthy white parents from New York City, leaving Julie to be raised by her aunt who is straight out of Grimm's Fairy Tales. Since their parents’ death, the twins have only met once in person. Given Chloe’s soaring popularity online, it is unsurprising that their reunion was completely staged for a YouTube video, earning Chloe tens of thousands of dollars. For Julie, who comes from more modest circumstances, this day was more about being used than loved and did not serve to make them friends much less siblings. Then Julie cannot reach Chloe for quite some time and ends up going to her apartment and finding her dead. Julie sees an opportunity to ditch her hum drum and financially unrewarding life to assume Chloe's and she gets to see how the influencer lives--which is not as glamorous as it might first appear.

Little Donnas, Baltimore, Maryland

I heard about this in a somewhat round about way. The New York Times did a review of "50 Restaurants We Are Excited About" in 2023 and a favorite restaurant in my home town, The Webster, was on that list. When it came out we went to another restaurant on the same list in Minneapolis that we loved and while I was looking it up to recommend it, and I saw this one. We were headed to Baltimore a few days later, and I looked to see if they had a reservation for five, and lo and behold, they did.

It was a lucky break because we all loved it. They have a tavern pizza, which won my son over, but for us the seafood was the key. They are famous for their pierogis, which were good, but we had a tuna crudo that was out of this world, a couple of vegetable forward dishes that were delicious and a chrimp dish that I loved as well. The atmosphere is very funky, as it the neighborhood, and it is reasonably priced as well. I would definitely go here again.

Opus: The Cult of Dark Money, Human Trafficking, and Right-Wing Conspiracy inside the Catholic Church

Spoiler alert--if you have been paying attention at all, there is nothing in here that is ground breaking. Shocking, yes. The depth of the corruption and how it has infiltrated our government and the governments of Europe is well laid out but on reflection, not surprising. The first thing to note about Opus is the tremendous amount of research that went into the project. This involved serious attention to many published works on the prelature, personal interviews with present and former members of Opus Dei (including significant leadership figures), and archival research materials. The resources are fully a quarter of the pages of the book. Some things I didn't know were that Opus Dei was founded in 1928 to be an association of mostly lay Catholics who would seek holiness through their daily activities and secular jobs. Most members are supernumeraries, which means they can be married and live independently, in their own homes; others are numeraries, making a promise of celibacy and living in Opus Dei centers in the community. The author started to investigate them because he was interested in the collapse of a Spanish bank in 2027--but it turned out that was literally the tip of the iceberg when it comes to the influence the group wields, and how Pope Francis was not under their sway being the sole bright light within. The author structures his book around three complementary narratives: one financial, one political and one ecclesial. He is on the strongest ground with following the money, and then where that leads in terms of political influence. It is pretty awful and demonstrates that we are very far from a separation of church and state.

Penguin Lessons (2025)

The director of this movie was also the director of The Full Monty, and if you are looking for something similar, you will be disappointed--but if you are looking for a quiet indie film that has some really awful things going on in hte background but that does not deal with that ugliness head on, you might enjoy this--I did. The movie features a mentally checked-out teacher named Michell at a boys’ private school in Buenos Aires, Argentina--we do not find out until much later what it was that happened to him that left him so damaged, but it is there. It all starts to shift a bit for him when he finds a Magellanic penguin on the beach in Uruguay, cleans him up, and the penguin is quite imprinted on him, and he reluctantly brings it home with him. The penguin helps him to segue back into the land of empathy and compassion, a place he has been disconnected from for an untold amount of time. Unfortunately, he is working in Argentina in the time when a right-wing military dictatorship takes over the country and is kidnapping people on the street and disappearing them. Sounds impossible but that is also happening right now in the United States, so never forget. This does not dealve too deeply into those waters, but does end with the sobering statistics on how widespread the kidnapping, torture and murder was and how many people suffered. I was in Buenos Aires earlier this year, and there are many doorsteps throughout the city marking homes where people disappeared and who they were--never foget.

The Rachel Incident by Caroline O'Donoghue

I learned about this book from a Friday episode of :If You Haven't Read This It Is New To You" from Parnassus Books--this weekly video clip recommends books that you might have missed when they came out that you should have read and why. The description of this is that it is messy, and I would certainly agree with that assessment! There are shades of Sally Rooney to be sure--less graphic sex but the same kinds of people who struggle with what to do and why to do it in their twenties, as well as the more fluid definitions of social support that extend beyond family. the author author who comes to mind in Anne Tyler, with her evocative portrayals of her character's inner lives. I liked this a lot. The book opens with Rachel Murray as a happily married, pregnant journalist based in present-day London, where she’s written extensively about the legalization of abortion in her native Republic of Ireland. Flashback to 2010, when she is an undergraduate, struggling to figure out a path for herself, and finding herself in a friendship with James, a young gay man that is her absolute best support. Ireland is in the midst of recovering from an economic setback, the social landscape in Ireland is shifting rapidly, and while she doesn't quite know what to do with her life or how she fits in, she does know who she can rely upon in times of crisis. She and James share a mutual infatuation with an older married man, and while James wins out in that situation, there are quite a few downstream complications that add an element of humor and fun to Rachel's figuring it all out and getting on with it in her thirties.

Dim Sum Palace, Catonsville, Maryland

Dim sum is a cuisine that we all really like, so when we went to Baltimore for our son's birthday weekend this was on the list of places to make time to have a lunch at. My nephew, who lived in China for several years, gave a thumbs up from a previous visit, so it had a seal of approval as well. The restaurant opens at 11AM and the rule of thumb is that you need to be there before it opens or soon thereafter. We were not so on top of it, but a luck would have it, we were a party of 5 and the large tables had yet to fill up, and we were seated immediately. There is a menu that you can order off, but we chose to eat off the roving trolleys, and the food was delicious--the crowd favorite was the Chinese broccoli, which was cooked perfectly with some tooth feel left but cooked through and with a delicious sauce. My next up was the shrimp and scallop shi mei, which we had one left over of and I wish we had gotten more to go. The scallion pancake around a shrimp was the next favorite for some, and I did enjoy the salt and pepper calamari, but wouldn't get it unless there are at least 4 diners, as it is both a large portion and filling. We would 100% make a effort to go back, and when we left 45 mintures after arriving there were dozens of people waiting for tables.

Broken Country by Claire Leslie Hall

Well, the country is quite broken right now, so the title stands out for it's accuracy, and the stories told within are of people who are also struggling mightily. Beth had big dreams as a teenager. She was in love with Gabriel, who encouraged her to reach for the stars, and she was on course to go to Oxford and fulfill her dreams of writing. It was all set off course by Gabriel, a misunderstanding, and his mother, who did and didn't do her part, and Beth decided to marry someone else from her class, a man who had loved her for years. Beth and Frank lead a fulfilling life. They love each other and work alongside each other, along with Frank’s volatile brother Jimmy, on the Blakely family farm in Dorset. They had a son soon after they were married, and he died in a tragic accident that both Frank and Beth blame on Frank. Enter Gabriel, returned from years away, on the verge of a divorce, with a son about the age that Beth's would have been, and it is all over for Beth. A love triangle develops for all to see, and it ends tragically. As with all tragedy's, you can see this one coming from a mile away, but there is no stopping it and no telling how it will end.

Holiday in the Vineyards (2025)

Yes, this is a romantic comedy aimed at the holiday viewing set, and no it is not a great film. I watchd it when my spouse unexpectedly tested positive for COVID and all of our weekend plans got canceled or put on hold because of it. He was ill, not just infected, and so our whole household lived separate lives for several days and I watched this movie. I enjoy the occasional movie in this genre. There are predictable things that happen and there are some real stretches to believe, more so than in movies of this genre, which is saying something. The situation is that Carter Baldwyn is the screw-up son of Margo Baldwyn (Eileen Davidson), the wealthy head of a huge bargain basement wine brand. In an effort to prove to his mom that he’s not a total good-for-nothing, he agrees to visit a small winery called Huckabee Vineyard in the fictional wine country town of Los Santos, CA, that’s just gone on the market and which his mother wants to acquire for their company. The catch – Carter has to be a run of the mill guy while he’s scoping out the vineyard so no one catches wind that it’s a Baldwyn that’s buying. No one likes the Baldwyns or their brand, becausethey are predators who not only make bad wine, but have a scorched earth approach to doing so. Carter lucks out when the real estate agent selling Huckabee, Valentina Espin offers him a place to stay if he finishes the remodel on her guest house. She is a widowed mom of two adorable boys, and Carter is no more suited to renovation than he is to anything else, but he manages to get the local hardware store owner to help him. It turns out that the locals are making some very good wine in their garages, and Carter comes to see things from their point of view. The scenery is gorgeous, and this is a quiet unassuming movie.

The Buffalo Hunter Hunter by Stephen Graham Jones

Ok, first of all, I made a mistake here. I added this to my library holds, I cannot remember why, but it happened in the flurry of articles about "The Best Books of 2025 So Far". Somehow in the rush to capture things I thought I would like but had not discovered, I missed that this book is categorized under "Horror", which is a genre that I most definitely do not read. Consider that as you read forward! I thought this was a non-fiction book, and I have a stack of them to read out from the library, so I brought it on a plane trip, and even though I recognized my mistake, I felt committed at that point, and read it. This isn't a fun read or even necessarily an enjoyable one, and the subject matter is dark and difficult to stomach at times. It is however is an unforgettable novel about a Pikuni vampire seeking revenge related to all that happened to both the buffalo and the Blackfoot in the mid-nineteenth century. So if horror is your jam, you might enjoy this.

La Mexicana, Coralville, Iowa

We had a family dinner here recently to celebrate my son's birthday. It is definitely our favorite Mexican restaurant in the Iowa City area--we literally drive by 6 or 7 other Mexican restaurants to get to it, we feel that strongly. My son has three small children and it has several advantages to recommend it for this occasion. One is that it is continually open, so that we don't have to get there before the lunch service ands or wait for the dinner service to begin--that is not an issue, and the added bonus is that if you are eating at an odd hour it is likely that you can get a table for 8 or more without difficulty. Truely, we never have an issue with it--there is a lot of flexible seating, and the service is fast, so turnover happens quickly. Second is that it is a bit loud and raucous while being kid friendly, so perfect table manners are not absolutely required. Then there is the food--all three of the aforementioned small children could find multiple things on the menu that appealed to them, and in actuality the chips with a salsa and a bean dip were most popular and they took a bulk of their ordered food home. There are several options that are popular and good for the adults--the chili relleno and the choripollo to name two. On this occasion there were a lot of tacos, but the rice and beans are very solid and we all leave happy every time. Finally, there is a grocery store connected to the restaurant and that was a fun stop for candy and cookies on the way out.

There Is No Place For Us by Brian Goldstone

There is one common thread when reading about homelessness in America--it is always gut wrenching and unfair. This is no exception. The twist is that the five families that the author follows in Atlanta are all working. The people in this book work a lot, and earn very little. Sleeping in cars, crashing with friends or paying for a decrepit room in an extended-stay hotel, they are trapped in an endless circle of poverty and uncertainty. Politicians have been incentivized to define homelessness narrowly, including only people living in shelters or on the street. A true measure of homelessness in America would be six times the official figure, pushing the number up to more than four million. It always leaves me wondering how you can feel exceptional when as a country you step on the most impoverished amongst us. The allowance for wages that do not add up to being able to feed, cloth, and house one's family is what underlies this tragedy. That things like food stamps and Medicaid serve to make people depend on government subsidies when the companies that employ people should be shouldering that burden.

Wish (2023)

This movie got a lot of very bad reviews, and where the story goes, this is a sub par addition to the Disney ouevre. The best rap of it is that it is all about emphasizing Disney's 100th anniversary, and that wishing upon a star is one of the oldest Disney tropes out there. From my point of view, that is 100% okay, that making a movie that harkens to their past once every 100 years is excusable. The downside is that the story does not drive the plot, the foundational concept does. So here is the story. Asha is a 17-year-old about to interview for an apprenticeship with the beloved King Magnifico of Rosas. The King is the keeper of magic in Rosas, a man who can extract the wishes of his flock, keeping them in a chamber high above the city, and choosing one wish in a ceremony to allow to come true. Asha hopes that her 100-year-old grandfather Sabino will finally have his wish granted, but she discovers that Magnifico isn’t well named. He’s more of a hoarder of wishes than a granter, and someone who doesn't keep his promises. Of course this is Disney, so Asha isn’t just an ordinary girl who learns about the absolute corruption of absolute power—she becomes a magical figure herself when a wishing star grants her abilities that turn her into a leader for her people. Asha literally wishes on a Star, and said Star comes down to cause chaos and help Asha start a revolution.

A High Wind In Jamaica by Richard Hughes (1929)

I have recently gotten hooked on the Friday videos by Ann Patchett that she does from her bookstore in Nashville, Parnassus Books, and this book was recommended in the series that they do on important books from the past that have been forgotten and shouldn't be. In thinking about the book and preparing to write this review, I found a review by someone who read it as a teenager and then again as a middle aged man. He found it full of adventure and strange and unknown things that enthralled him--that was definitely not my experience, nor was it his the second time around. This is an odd story, creepy even, told from both adult and child points of view and takes place sometime before 1860. The Thornton children and 2 mixed race children are placed on a ship to get them to England, where their parents are waiting for them. Their ship is boarded by pirates pirates, a profession that is no longer profitable but they haven't cross trained to do something else, but neither are they completely blood thirsty villains either. They are unable to wrench any valuables from the ship they have boarded, and they take the children to their ship in an effort to convince the Clorinda captain to hand over his money. He does so, probably more to save his own skin, but, about the children, he gets confused and thinks the pirates have murdered them, and, so, he sails away in the dark. The pirates awaken to find they have the children now as unwanted passengers. You will have to read to see what happens--it is in some ways worse than you think and in other ways better. Richard Percival Graves, in his biography of Hughes, placed this novel between RM Ballantyne’s optimistic adventure story The Coral Island, published in 1858, which shows a group of children cast away on a deserted atoll “to be naturally good, decent and self-reliant,” and William Golding’s Lord of the Flies, published almost 100 years later, in which the civilized values of adult society are soon jettisoned by the schoolboys who turn to savagery on their island. A High Wind in Jamaica takes no sides as it patrols the eccentric, sometimes amoral borders between a child’s and an adult’s natural territory.

Restaurante Lurrak, Arbonne, France

We spent almost a week in Basque country and one day of it was spent in French Basque ountry. We did not get to a memorable bakery, and we did not get any cheese, so that was disappointing to the point of needing to go back when time is less of an issue, but the restaurant we ate at was perfect.

The emphasis on seasonal food, and the fact that we were there when it was white asparagus, artichoke, and strawberry season was exceptional, and we were able to have these delicacies almost every day. The top picture is of a lightly pickle and thinly sliced kohlrabi that was absolutely the best version of this spring vegetable that I have ever had. The kitchen was small, as was the restaurant, but it was a memorable and delicious lunch!

A Blissful Feast by Teresa Lust

The trouble with going to the less traveled spots is that sometimes it is hard to find books that cover said regions. I have an acquaintance who travels extensively and often who swears by travel blogs as a source from which to plan your trips. She travels off the beaten path, and I am seeing the wisdom of her way. So I picked this up because it starts in Piedmont, a region that I am traveling to very soon. The author's maternal grandparents came from the Italian Piedmont, and it's there that she begins her what is part memoir, part recollection of culinary lessons and cultural insights in three parts of the country. The book contains more than 35 recipes for the likes of braised rabbit with white wine and rosemary, breakfast biscotti, and tagliatelle made with fresh eggs, the real instruction comes through the stories Lust tells about the cooks who fed her and whom she worked alongside to learn how to cook regionally in Italy. Ancient and contemporary Italy overlap in her stories of cooks and marketplaces, restaurants and holiday feasts, regional rivalries and evocations of Dante. She went to Piedmont to learn Italian at a language school, and she recounts her struggles when the limitation of her language skills led to challenges in her understanding the conversations she had with the cooks, bakers, and butchers but as her skill improved her stories have more depth and interest. It really stuck with her, because she is now a professor in Italian language study at Dartmouth, and some of the stories towards the end of her book are about trying to take the cuisine of Italy home to New England. I especially appreciated her story of harvesting hops shoots and how perplexing it was for the farms caretaker to understand what she was about. There is a hazard that you're likely to want to make your own trip to Italy, and luckily I had that in hand before I started the book.

Nonnas (2025)

One of my kids and I watch movies together when my spouse is on call or out of town. We watch things that are not clear winners, and also things that might not hit the spot for him--in this case I think he would have been ok with this (we watched Kung Fu Panda 4 this way, and that was a clear win-win. We found it modestly entrertaining and he would not have agreed I predict). This is inspired by the life of Jody Scaravella, who moved into the attic bedroom of his childhood home to care for his mother. When she died he was bereft, set afloat and asea, not knowing quite what to do next. In the midst of his grief, and maybe not thinking as clearly as would be ideal, he opened Enoteca Maria on Staten Island in 2007. Still thriving two decades later, the restaurant became famous for the grandmothers or nonnas in the kitchen. Each of them cooking dishes from different Italian regions. His concept was that the restaurant and the food would remind you of home, that the kitchen would be populated not by prodessional chefs but by people who were cooking food they had made for their families for decades. There is also a thread here of hanging on to your culture, and that the recipes that our grandmother's made being made now is a way to hang on to that history. It’s about holding onto tradition—conjuring our ancestors through the things they pass down to us—whether it’s culture, inheritance, or food. I just saw a recipe for Molasses Cookies in my grandmother's handwriting in my recipe book this past week and it made me think of so much more than her or those cookies. Even though I did not find the recipe that I was looking for, it was quite lovely to peak in to my past.

Confessions by Catherine Airey

This is a complicated novel that shifts between the past and present, between narrators, and also between truths--there are a lot of secrets herein. It opens opens in New York on 9/11. Sixteen-year-old Cora, who is playing truant, watches the news from her apartment, and knows that her father is dead. Michael was an accountant who worked on the 104th floor of the North Tower. Cora’s mother Máire died seven years earlier, so she is now an orphan. From here, the story cuts back to 1974, to rural Ireland, and a narrative told by Cora’s aunt Róisín. We see Cora’s parents, Máire (Róisín’s sister) and Michael (who lives next door) growing up in Burtonport, Donegal. Máire travels to the USA to study at NYU. She is a born artist, but troubled, and people prey on her. Michael joins her, trying to help. The second half of the novel stitches to and fro across the decades, ending in 2023. Passages are narrated by Róisín, Michael, and Cora’s daughter Lyca, who uncovers half a century’s worth of family stories and secrets, and must decide what to do with them. They shape shift in all sorts of ways besides who is narrating and this complex task is handled well--the story comes out surprisingly seamless despite a myriad of ways the story is told. The secrets Lyca uncovers are borne by the women of the family, and involve addiction, adoption, rape, mental illness, gay rights, abortion rights and intergenerational trauma: it takes on big subjects and as debut novels go, this one is impressive.

Restaurante Alameda, Hondarribia, Spain

This was a fancy restaurant in a bustling seaside town in Northern Spain, the most atmosperically fancy place we ate on this trip. There were gorgeous sculptures made from large pieces of wood that towered over table in the dining room, while we ate outside on the reiver's side. The food was all from the region, and it was seasonal. We started off with Fois gras truffles and several fish dishes, and finished with some fruit forward desserts. The one pictured here, a green apple and green pea sorbet, was unusual, refreshing and unexpectedly delicious. The food here was notable for unexpected pops, and I would highly recommend this as a destination.

Turning to Birds by Lili Taylor

I am not big on celebrity writing as a rule, but I enjoyed this, partly because I think all things bird have a way with me, and partly because it contains a nice collection of observations and wisdom that it behooves us all to pay attention to. She starts off by making the point that as an actor of several decades length she knows how to look and how to listen. She’s been trained to use these skills to give outstanding, grounded performances that move her audience. Here she writes about how she’s applied these and other actorly skills to learning to know the birds around her, whether she’s on the job in New Mexico, a newbie at a large birding festival, or simply walking in her neighborhood in Brooklyn. But that’s not all. Like any good essayist, Taylor effortlessly connects the personal to the universal, in this case going from bird observation to major conservation issues. Birds are both the feature and the bug in this case--they are worthy in and of themselves, and they are also a barometer of what is happening in the world around us. This is well worth your time to both read and think about. The author has also used her notoriety for good--to promote increased awareness of the changing environment and how that is affecting birds--and since we share the same environments, ourselves.

Kung Fu Panda 4 (2024)

The most shocking thing about this movie is that it has been 8 years since a Kung Fu Panda has come out--it is both hard to believe it has been that long and equally challenging to think that it still has a sustained audience. This is a solid but unremarkable follow up, not sustaining the magic of the first one, but it is certainly recognizable and uses many of the tropes that worked in the past along with heavy hitting actores coming back to voice the characters even after such a long delay. Here is the basic set up. It is sometime after the defeat of General Kai, where Po – now well established as the Dragon Warrior – become a local celebrity. He even helps his fathers – adopted goose dad Mr. Ping and biological panda dad Li – open a new restaurant in the Valley of Peace. But Po’s master Shifu chimes in with some ancient history--he claims that Po’s time as the Dragon Warrior is coming to an end and he must choose a successor, as he is to advance to the highest stage in all of kung fu: Spiritual Leader. Po, enjoying his status and fearing change, is reluctant to name a new Dragon Warrior and equally hesitant about taking on the new role. This leades to some mistakes being made, another epic battle between good and evil, and a possible new team member to boot. This is deversionary at best--not sorry to have wathced--it is leaving Netflix soon after all--but not exactly recommending it. I will say I so like this series better than the How To Train Your Dragon franchise, so there is that.

Soldiers and Kings by Jason de Leon

If you don't know this book, you really should. For one thing, it won the National Book Award in the category on Non-Fiction. The real overriding and compelling reason is that it tells the story on what is happening in Mexico and Central America in a way that is important to hear, to listen to, and to understand. Now that the United States is establishing concentration camps within our borders, and allowing heavily armed men who wear balaclavas and no identification to pull people off the streets without showing paperwork or case and shoving them into unmarked vehicles, we are now the bad guys. We need to really get our collective minds wrapped around that. This book is an incredible feat of anthropology and human connection. In it, De León chronicles the near-decade he spent getting to know a group of Honduran human smugglers, those hired by migrants to help them cross the border (not to be confused with human traffickers, who take people against their will). Unlike with most books about the migrant crisis, which of course focus on the migrants, De León’s generous, tender focus on the smugglers he befriended shows us a side of the equation rarely considered and often dismissed. These people are not (all) rich, cruel crime lords. They are often fleeing situations just as impossible and dangerous as the people who hire them, and they too have dreams and families and desperate hope. I cannot even fathom the dangers the author faced and the emotional toll this work took on him, as many of the people he came to know well were killed over the course of his field work. This is gritty and important.

Stoney Creek Inn, Pasadena, Maryland

My SIL and BIL have a place just a couple blocks from here--the restaurant sits at the mouth of Stoney Creek, which is a brackish water creek that eventually joins the Chesapeake Bay, and truely, there is no reason to go furhter to eat. They are known for their crab and oysters, which thrive in brackish water and might well come from right outside the restaurant, but their fish and shrimp dishes are excellent. My personal favorites are the shrimp po-boy, which is serves on a perfect roll, and go well with a side salad and fries. My other choice would be the shrimp salad, which is served atop fresh greens that are flavorful and the choices of dressings is above average. The cherry on top is that the prices are reasonable, it is a favorite spot for locals, and the service is quick and friendly. Added bonus is that they have an extensive dessert menu.