Come See Me In The Good Light (2025)

This is wonderful. Yes, it is about recurrent cancer. Yes, someone dies. Add to all this, as if it is not enough, that it is ovarian cancer, which is notoriously deadly and something that I have had. I am wholeheartedly recommending this, because it is deep and thoughtful, it depicts a head on approach to what is happening and there is still joy and love and a lust for life. Andrea Gibson is a spoken word poet and their wife is fellow poet Megan Falley. In 1921 they are diagnosed with ovarian cancer, which has inevitably spread. That is often, if not almost always true by the time one has symptoms. Then she has the terrible misfortune of having a platinum resistant tumor and she recurs within 6 months. This is the point at which there really is very little hope, but she wants to live. She wants to try everything, and she does. The film is as intimate as it gets, following Gibson into doctor’s appointments, curling up with them and Falley in bed, and eating meals soundtracked by the laughter of close friends. This is not fly-on-the-wall observant, but rather seat-at-the-table active. Structured also through Gibson’s reading of their poems, spliced in when narratively relevant, we come to see just how much they are synonymous with their work. There is no separation of the art and artist, as Gibson’s life is unabashedly unfiltered in their prose. So yes, it does not end well, but it is a beautiful tale well told, and as they say themself, we all face this, it is only a matter of when, not if.